You have heard the saying "When you are up to your neck in alligators it is hard to remember your job was to drain the pond." Sometimes it is possible to find yourself up to your neck in alligators and not know HOW to drain the pond. Some people open their front door and go "here alligators, here alligators, (kissing sound designed to coax any alligator in the neighborhood to come and live at your house) You need to find a sure fire way of saying NO and meaning it??????? or a sure proof way of ridding your house and life of alligators. If you don't you will spend all your day chasing them around and at the end of the day I wonder what you have actually accomplished... Make this a goal for the coming year......Find a way to keep your door closed when a pack of alligators are roaming the neighborhood